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"The Past"
I came to your blog looking for inspiration, she said.
My husband just abandon my son & I, she said.
For a moment I felt her pain in the depths of my cold and sheltered heart.
This is it, all over again, except this time….I’m not her.
This is her [...]
Ever heard a song that fits so well at a certain point or moment in your life that you are quite certain it was written about you and your “moments” or is it just me?
For example, the first time I had ever heard Kenny chesney was purely an accident.
The holidays are lurking just around the corner.
The holidays can be a stressful time for anyone, especially single parents.
You struggle day to day all year and now you start to loose sleep at night wondering how in the hell you’re going to pull this off.
I recently found myself [...]
How does one who admittedly doesn’t fit the mold, or even try to, have a happily ever after?
They know that since they don’t fit the mold, they don’t fit the typical moldy happily ever after…and they never settle.
I don’t even like the sound of “settle down”.
I certainly don’t like the sound [...]
Friendship isn’t about never leaving.
It’s about leaving, learning, living; coming back and nothing has changed but everything around you.
Your friends…your true friends, like true love….lasts life.
I am eternally grateful to have true friends….. real people, real issues, real [...]
Definition of vicitm: an unfortunate person who suffers from adverse circumstance
Note~you are not a victim if you have self inflicted those adverse circumstances. Thats just simply called puttin on your big girl panties and dealing with the consequences of YOUR OWN choices.
It seems to me that the world is full of victims; [...]
There are endless challenges in the adventures of parenting for all of us. Single parenting a rambunctious and inquisitive little girl is a challenge I take on and quite enjoy daily.
She’s a fascinating little person and she’s absolutely gorgeous. Long dark hair, big brown eyes, the longest lashes I’ve ever seen [...]
It was a glorious fall morning in Minnesota. The bluest most untouched sky…sun shining bright…leaves starting to change that wicked red and orange of autumn.
I remember getting into my car that morning and thinking “it’s to fuckin early for this. Damnit that sun is bright! I feel [...]
“You don’t develop courage by being happy in your relationships everyday. You develop it by surviving difficult times and challenging adversity.”
Epicurus quotes
When my wingbitch asked me to choose a topic and post on it, I picked courage because I thought I knew a lil something about it……I thought wrong. I had [...]
Lately I’ve noticed among a few of my rockstar daddy friends …a general frustration with baby momma drama.
Look I know, I’m the evilest baby momma imaginable,
I took the baby, skipped town & terminated mr meths parental rights, thus making him a sperm donor, [...]
“Did you go to prom?” she asked me, batting those long lashes at me
“Mhmm” I replied
“With who?” she asked with a bit of surprise in her voice “Did you wear a dress?!”
“I went with your dad and yes, I even wore a dress” I said
“What color was your dress?”
“Black & [...]
Maybe it’s just that time of year again….late March through early April are notoriously painful for me for many reasons.
April 1st 2001 I watched my fathers house burn to the ground.
April 6th 2001 I watched my grandfather take his last breathe.
Today was an all time suck fuckingtastic day.
It was one of those days that if I still lived in Minnesota I would have went to sit with Squash….which knowing how February in Minnesota goes….would have been mighty cold and covered in snow.
Not the ideal time to visit a cemetery but there is [...]
He wasn’t the one that got me to break.
He’s just the one that I blame for everything.
He let me down in a major way. I hate being let down.
He dropped me just when I needed him the [...]
I’m the first one to admit that I’ve fucked up.
I know (as do most of you who have been reading as long as I’ve been writing) that I’ve made some bad choices.
Was it a bad choice to buy that first pack of smoked illegally when I was 15?
Fuck yes (I say [...]
“It never really bothered me that much because I knew I wouldn’t be doing this alone forever”
“It never really bothered me because I knew I would be doing this all on my own forever”
Two very different women, two very different situations; both end up in the same place today-single motherhood.
[...]
The Saturday 6 (thanks to Mommy’s Kicking Cancers Ass)
1) Do you still celebrate your birthday?
I don’t need to, the PIT gets excited enough for the both of us.
2) Favorite kind of birthday cake?
Angel food cake with kool aid frosting. Um, [...]
I’ve been taking on a more positive approach to everything I do.
It has been a challenge for me-I’m way better at being the pissy bitter one, that seems to come more naturally-yet, if the law of attraction is in fact correct….well then no wonder my life feels like an [...]
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